“She’s not being a gold digger. Women are wired to seek stability and safety.” Just Ask Maxx on the difference between wanting a stable partner and wanting a wallet, and why you need your own stability too.
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The “Body Count of 800” Cartoon Is a Joke. The Double Standard Behind It Isn’t.
In the viral cartoon, a man with a “body count of 800” judges a woman’s past. Just Ask Maxx on the body count double standard and the questions that matter more than a number.
“Men Don’t Want Women With Ties to Multiple Men.” Let’s Talk About That Double Standard.
A viral post says men don’t want relationships with women who have ties to multiple men. Just Ask Maxx on co-parenting, double standards and what a blended family really needs.
“She Can’t Pair-Bond Anymore”? What the Science Actually Says About Women, Sex and Love
A viral cartoon mocks the “pseudoscience expert” who says women who sleep around lose the ability to pair-bond. Just Ask Maxx on what the research really shows and what actually builds a bond.
She Ended an Eight-Year Marriage Because He Cheated “Just Once.” Was She Wrong?
A viral story about a wife who left after her husband cheated “just once” split the internet. Just Ask Maxx on why “just once” isn’t the point, and how to decide whether to stay or go.
He Said, She Said: When Your Relationship Turns Into a Tug-of-War, Nobody Wins
Zach Miers and Kiddada Asmara Grey bring both sides in He Said, She Said. This week: what happens when every disagreement becomes a tug-of-war, and how to put the rope down.
“There Is No Good Woman”? What That Viral Clip Says About Men Who Are Hurting
A clip titled “There Is No Good Woman” pulled a comment that said “Don’t date, don’t marry, EVER.” Just Ask Maxx on what’s really behind it and how men heal.
Is Richard Cooper Teaching Men to Love Women, or to Fear Them?
“Never marry a single mother.” “Stay single.” “Women aren’t the prize.” Just Ask Maxx looks at the Richard Cooper slogans going viral and asks what they teach men about love.
Why You Keep Attracting the Same Type of Partner (and How to Break the Pattern)
Different name, same heartbreak? Just Ask Maxx explains why we keep choosing the same type of partner and how to finally break the pattern.
Dear Gentlemen: Let’s Have a Coaching Moment About What a Compliment Is, and Why “I Want to Put a Baby in You” Is Not One
“Take a compliment!” Gentlemen, let’s reset the standard. Here’s why “I want to put a baby in you” isn’t flattery, and what a real compliment sounds like.









